Robert Holden online talk 2026 – Becoming yourself

What does it really mean to become yourself when you are young and trying to find your place in the world?

Many young adults live with a strange mix of freedom and pressure. You are expected to choose your direction, create a future, build relationships, make good decisions, and figure out who you are — often while still discovering what actually matters to you. It can feel like you have to become someone before you have had the time to understand yourself.

In this special online evening, Robert Holden, member of the Board of Excellence of the Next Next Generation Society, will explore the heart of his new book ”Becoming yourself” and share why the wisdom of the Enneagram is so relevant for young adults today.

Robert Holden is known internationally for his work on psychology, authenticity, purpose, and the deeper journey of becoming more fully human. In ”Becoming yourself”, he brings these themes together with the Enneagram in a way that is warm, practical, reflective, and deeply human. The Enneagram is often introduced as a system of personality types, but Robert’s work shows how it can also help you understand your patterns, your reactions, your relationships, and the deeper self beneath all the pressure to perform, compare, and fit in.

This online talk is for young adults who want a deeper understanding of themselves. It is for those who are asking questions like: Who am I really? What shapes my choices? Why do I repeat certain patterns? Why do relationships sometimes become difficult? Why do I feel pressure, confusion, or self doubt even when things look fine from the outside? And how do I become more fully myself instead of living up to expectations that are not truly mine?

Throughout the evening, Robert Holden will share the core perspectives from ”Becoming yourself” and unfold how the Enneagram can help young adults understand the inner patterns that shape their lives. He will explore how the nine Enneagram types reveal different ways of paying attention, seeking safety, protecting identity, and navigating emotions and relationships. And he will show how this insight can become a path toward greater self compassion, awareness, courage, and inner freedom.

The evening is especially created for young adults who are in the middle of discovering who they are, what matters to them, and how they want to live. It is about identity, belonging, relationships, pressure, direction, and meaning. It is about learning to understand yourself more deeply so that your life choices can become more grounded, more conscious, and more truly your own.

You will be presented to and learn about:

• How the Enneagram can help you understand yourself more deeply
• Why the nine Enneagram types reveal patterns of attention, motivation, and identity
• How the Enneagram can help you understand pressure, comparison, insecurity, and self doubt
• How your type may shape the way you relate to friendships, love, belonging, and conflict
• How self knowledge can help you make wiser choices about life, study, work, and relationships
• Why personal growth is not about fixing yourself, but about becoming more honest and free
• How the Enneagram can support greater self compassion, clarity, and presence
• Why becoming yourself is a real life journey and not just an idea

 If you are a young adult who sometimes feels pulled in too many directions, unsure of who you are, or under pressure to become something before you feel ready, this evening is for you. If you are curious about personal growth, relationships, identity, or the deeper meaning of your life, this evening is also for you. You do not need to know a lot about the Enneagram in advance. What matters is your curiosity and your willingness to explore yourself in a deeper way.

Join us for this special online evening with Robert Holden and explore how the Enneagram can help you become more fully yourself, live with greater awareness, and find a wiser and more grounded way of being young in the world today.

Date: Tuesday 26 May

Time: 19.00 to 21.00 CEST (Danish time)

Format: Online live talk, teaching and conversation – and it’s free

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